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August 05

Pain -Free Sex Changes and Muggy Bug Ridden Nights

Don't get me wrong;  I'm  still loving the rolling, green hills of Kentuck, especially with the man I love  as a tour guide.
 
I'm also apparently a moving feast every humid evening for all sorts of ugly bugs . *Ugh* Scratch , scratch , wince.
 
The bigger news around these parts is that a brand spanking new male has entered our lives  out of the blue.
 
He's low to the ground sporting a mostly gray body with white markings , purrs incessantly and shockingly responds to the name "Zelda".
 
The vet  tech sported  a big grin on her face while informing  Steff, Syd and myself  the other afternoon, that  a sex change had transpired after a brief examination of Zel cat for his first exam and shots ...
 
After the initial shock wore off , Steff set about adjusting her language and  got a blue  collar for  her  new feline companion.
 
He's a darling ,and so she's getting use to her first male pet ever.
 
My grandson is quite the handsome lad if I don't say so myself !
 
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June 25

So Here

 
...in Kentucky since Father's Day Sunday with my daughter , Sophie  , two kittens ,Eddie and his daughter in tow .
 
He brought along  his youngest daughter  to help us move out of our Massachusetts rental home .
She's a sweetie , and boy can she clean and help pack.
 
 We stopped off in Ohio to see our  friends and went with their family  to King's Island amusement park by Cincy .
Steff got two kittens along the way at the  friend's house and is tending to them at the other house.  
 
Currently I'm being shuttled  between two houses ( they are one mile apart)and  doing stuff  in each .
 
I am adjusting to having  a teen and two younger kids around me on a regular basis .
 
It takes a lot of energy, but  they are really great  kids , so it's all good.
 
A  lifestyle with more people in it  is going to take some time  to get use to as Steff and I have been basically alone since we left my parents in Texas  nearly two years ago.
 
Eddie and his family are very helpful and friendly people , and that makes this transition  so much easier.
 
Some days I wake up and can't believe  how life has changed   over the past few years.
 My life has taken so many twists and turns ,  yet I am still standing and  am very happy to boot  .
 
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 The kittens , all gray Ebbie ( short for Ebony) , and Zelda.
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June 02

Local Flayvor

On one of our last raw milk runs here in Massachusetts before moving,  we ran into this  local specialty :
 
asparagus ice cream sign
Yup,you read that correctly.
  
We each took a bite and decided  that while it would never  be a personal frontrunner favorite  like say sweet cream, dulce y leche ,chocolate brownie ,hazelnut , blood orange or  passionfruit sorbet ...it was not as gacky as one would suspect.
 
It was spicy/nutty/chunky , however, fitting it into our ice cream repertoire was not something  either of us had an inclination  to run out and do.
 
Being the culinary adventurers that we are  , we had to at least give it a try .
  This  dairy confection  is not a contender for my apres  dinner delights , and shall remain in the realm of been there, done that  and just leave the t-shirt  on the rack cause clingy cotton 's not my thang.
 
May 20

Tattered Tulips

Gave notice to our landlord last week .
 
Everything is slowly starting to fall into place  , with a bit of persistence  on both ends of this move .
 
Boxes are being filled , calls being made  and  loose ends tied together.
 
While the last of  the tulips are  swaying in the breeze looking a bit worse for wear  ,  we endeavor to pack up our lives  yet another time.
 
 This time the move is instigated  by my intense desire to be with a man who is in every way imaginable my partner .
 
Feeling this amount of joy  about my  present and future is something I never  expected .
 
This is exactly where I am suppose to be going  at this point in my life.
 
Ihave no doubts .
 
 
And think not you can
Direct the course of love,
For love,
If it finds you worthy,
Directs your course.
~ by  Kahlil Gibran
~
 
 
( thanks to Susanne for finding this lovely quote)
 
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May 09

Boxes, Tissue , Tape and Markers

It's offically settled.
We are  heading  out of Massachusetts  by mid -June and moving to Kentucky .
 
 
Excitement, work ,anticipation and joy are all bundled into one  package of  let's just  " git 'er dun ".
 
 
Our grand New England adventure now  winds down to it's last weeks.
 
 
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April 26

MMMMMMMMMMMMMM

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I spent nearly three weeks with Eddie  in  Kentucky from the beginning of April until a few days ago  .

Life was good no matter what endeavors we undertook together .

We just work .Period.It's all good.

As we said our goodbyes the other afternoon  , and I went to stand in the security queue, I vowed that would be the last time I would ever  walk away from him again .

Living  seperate  lives  is  quite the challenge , hence, the moving date has moved up again  from the original fall time frame  .

March 30

Dictionary .com Strikes Again

Italian English

Novità
Sul nuovo numero in edicola...
Nel numero di aprile La Cucina Italiana propone profumatissimi piatti a base di erbe aromatiche. E per chi vuole portarsi il pranzo in ufficio o in gita tante idee per tortini vegetariani, bocconcini energetici e torte golose da trasportare nelle classiche “gamelle” trasformate in oggetti di moderno design. Questo mese la scuola di cucina è dedicata al pesce azzurro, il più ricco in acidi grassi omega3 , da preparare in facili ricette che ne esaltano il gusto.

Innovation
On the new number in newspaper stand…
In the number of you open them the Italian Kitchen proposes profumatissimi plates made up of aromatic grass. And for who the lunch in office or trip wants to be carried many greedy ideas for tortini vegetarians, bocconcini energetic and cakes to transport in the classic ones “gamelle” transformed in objects of modern design. This month the kitchen school is dedicated to the blue fish, richest in fat acids omega3, to prepare in easy prescriptions that of it they exalt the taste.

My monthly Italian cooking  email ...translated ???????!!!!!!!!!!!!

        

 

Good grief !  

retroaprilkitch                               

March 27

Filth Wizard

My desk was ... absolutely  disgusting .
 
 
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After a nearly  all day clean-a-thon yesterday , including showing my shame to Eddie 
 as a sort of "look what you are getting into, you poor guy, run away now before it's too late" !
 
I was also attempting  to give myself a proverbial kick up the bum in motivation .
 
The  vast amount of crumbs alone  I found lodged in  my keyboard  were astonishing .
I vacuumed it out with my powerful animal Dyson , and then the chunk-age that was left shifted and blocked my "g" key so it stuck...
IMing proved to be entertaining  for awhile until  they migrated  again.
 
The  dust bunnies wantonly frolicking under my desk is a whole other issue I don't want to get into  at the present time.
 
Last thing I still need to do is  spit shine polish the wood with my  Murphy's Oil Soap  wipes.
 
I'm not sure how long it will stay in this nearly pristine condition.
 
Suffice it  to say that I am  mostly a  domestic diva wannabe .
 
 I'd say that I am actually much closer  to Charlie Brown's Pig Pen character ...
 Still steaming
March 23

Boogie Bunny Busts A Move

Easter 2006--tasty  memories.

Gotta love the ice sculptures ...

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This  Easter is low key ,just like 2007 was , mostly we'll be   taking a walk this afternoon and phoning  folks .
No cooking for me  , we bought a bunch of  premade  dinners from our favorite local deli .
 
The sun is shining  and  spring has sprung.
 
I can definitely say Steff and I are both looking forward to Easter 2009.
 
It's all good.
 
 
March 18

Finally

 We can walk  through the neighborhood  without  stumbling on chunks  of ice  , or being  carried away by snow drifts !
  
 Tulip leaves are  already  bursting   from the ground.
 
I cannot wait  for them to emerge from their  long slumber .
 
Last year  their sudden appearance  gave us a wonderful surprise  with those silken  petals  swaying in the breeze .
 
The joy I felt  looking out  the front windows  everyday, or just walking out to get the mail , warmed every winter weary cell in my body .
 
I approached Spring with a zest I had never before felt.
 
 
In two days , Spring  is officially here this year  and this year the tulips still rank  high on my list of  natural healing therapy .
 
  I've also got  something  wonderful putting some  serious za-za -zu in my step,
 
a zeal whose fervor will not be dampened by those sneaky snow storms that don't  follow the calender rules .
 
 
 
      
 
Heal Over by KT Tunstall
 
 It isn't very difficult to see why
You are the way you are
Doesn't take a genius to realise
That sometimes life is hard
It's gonna take time
But you'll just have to wait
You're gonna be fine
But in the meantime

Come over here lady
Let me wipe your tears away
Come a little nearer baby
Coz you'll heal over
Heal over
Heal over someday

And I don't wanna hear you tell yourself
That these feelings are in the past
You know it doesn't mean they're off the shelf
Because pain's built to last
Everybody sails alone
But we can travel side by side
Even if you fail
You know that no one really minds
Come over here lady

Don't hold on but don't let go
I know it's so hard
You've got to try to trust yourself
I know it's so hard, so hard

Come over here lady
Let me wipe your tears away
Come a little nearer baby
Coz you'll heal over, heal over, heal over someday
March 14

March Madness

The light  of day lasts just a bit longer  now, tree  buds are beginning to show  and  the birds are definitely frisky .
Probably  getting ready to fight the local bears  for seed yet again.
 
Six days  before  the official start of Spring 2008 , and  I can  feel  a definite jaunt in my step the past few days .
 
The seemingly relentless pursuit of warmth in this  unforgiving northern clime  ,  is now  centered around a quickening of days as I am anticipating  another visit  to Kentucky in three weeks.
 
I am following  my bliss carrying an unwieldy suitcase  stuffed with way too many shoes, and it's taking me somewhere I never expected to be going .
 
There are days where words fail me , and I cannot encapsulate my state  into a neat and tidy box.
 
My unspoken dreams of  a fulfilling partnership are becoming  a reality as my wishes were seemingly heard by someone  in charge .
 
 
Attempting to focus on balancing the new direction my life is ultimately  heading in , while still living in the here and now ,is proving to be  a daunting task.
 
I wouldn't have it any other way.
 
I love you, Eddie.
 
That's all.
 
March 01

Western Mass White Out

 
At least I've got my warm hearted honey  to lift my spirits, even if only by telephone ...for now .
 
That would be you, my Eddie !
 
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February 24

Snow Blind

..in front of my kitchen window  trying to do my dishes !
 
 Enough white stuff.
Please.
 
 Yeah I know,nobody held a gun at me back in 06 and  said" Move to Massachusetts or else ...your gnomes  will snuff it ."

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This incessant  winter  weather is  sure making  our proposed move  to Kentucky later this year  even easier.

Besides the whole" majorly in love thing" , of course...surprise snap

 
February 17

WOW

Just came back from a week in  Kentucky  Friday night.
 
I swear I heard "Kismet  arriving at  Gate C " over the  PA system  at the Cincy airport .
 
 
Every moment  had a special  flavor  , no matter what we were up to  on any given day.
 
 
We simply had the time of our lives.
 
No regrets .
 
Besides sporadically wiping the tears of longing away from my eyes since I got home,   I've  feverishly plotting how to get
 with him  permanently as soon as  the path shows itself .
 
 
Living  without him for any prolonged length of time is not a state I willingly choose  to be in .
 
 
That would just be wrong.
 

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February 05

Fireworks

Oh yeah, now that's what I'm talking about,both behind  my blog* and in my life currently.
 
 
On the morning of February 8 , I will embark on the journey of a life time.
 
I will be off to Ohio , then Kentucky for a week to see  my  someone special  who just happens to be a face from my past  ,as well as , the surprise  love of my present and  future  .
 
 I never saw this coming.
 
My days and nights  have never been this  full of sparks  , colors  and  magic .
 
 
I am grateful  to be here right now   , savoring every moment  to it's fullest.
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* Background  picture &  small picture  by Eddie A. 1986
 
 
 
 
January 27

Step Into My Parlor ,If You Dare

And behold  my bold new world of confectionary beans:
 

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Ok, these  are just too much fricken fun to make !
 I have given life to six new  taste sensations so far.
 
Here's a wee hint: my contributions are  mainly fruit based  to date.
 
These flavors are stuff I either make at home, or have eaten  in various  restaurants around the world. 
 
 AS IF  I would give up the method of my madness for these surefire taste  sensations  ...just gaze upon my bean-y brilliance  and then Design Your  Own
 

        

  

What's your flava ?!

 
January 19

I Did That With My Coupla Cuppa Joes This Morn

...came up  with some new flavors of Jelly Belly Brand  jelly beans (http://www.dreambeancontest.com) all while
 talking  to my wonderful paramour  all morning and afternoon , attending my sickly daughter  ,doing endless dishes   plus  baking  kick @ss banana bread .
 
A busy Saturday  whose crowning  glory was the creation of an imaginary bean,whose greatest potential
is to melt in many a mouth,  knowing no geographic boundaries , all while poised to shake up the world of confectionery as we know it .
 
My main goal  is to enter a unique flavor  everyday  for the next  five days.
  I frankly need a few chances to get the 10 K they are  dangling in front of my freckled nose .
 
I gotta have money to keep seeing my honey who lives in Kentucky , and this seems  easier and more legit  than say oh , selling my wares on my newly  installed web cam.
 
*snort*
 
Definitely.

   

 
January 10

Shine

The big news for 2008 is still love .
 
I didn't know that  love  could ever find me again.
 
Oh I hoped  and dreamed  , but  the reality of such a gift  felt fleeting  and unattainable.
 
Pie in the sky,driven by  romance novel drivel and  way too many late night Lifetime Movies for Women.
 
 I stand here today  feeling shiny and new facing  unchartered territory with a smile  and a nod.
 
 
Let's dive in baby, the  water's  liquid like love.
 
 
 
December 20

Oh, The Weather Outside Is Frightful

Huge amounts of snow, ice, and snow plow bills are making the last days of  Fall (?!) quite memorable and  to top off everything --an unexpected  dollop of Christmas  Spirit .
 
 
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I am feeling exceptionally well right now  , and it's nothing I ever expected.
 
Both our jobs  are swimming along  and I have to rescind my prior statements on surprises being highly overrated .
 
There is no tree up in the house at this time , and yet I feel completely illuminated.
 
 
 Sweet.